Win-Lose Situation

Night was silent...
Phone's silent too...
To bed was my intention...
To hibernate...
To rest...
After a tiring week...
Suprise came...
Baby called...
I answered...
He asked...
I replied...
We agreed...
There was this suddenly invitation from Baby to go clubbing, so I kinda have to betray my sister and canceled our outing. I am so sorry my sister!!! gomenasai

Baby, XX, Elle and Me... we went to Zouk for an event and we don't know what the hell was that event because there was too many crowds there and we just couldn't wait that long so we went to the side room rather than the place where the event was held. And people are still lining up to enter the main room at 1am. Crazy!

Just as we enter the room, I can already feel the bass.. Oh my.. what a wonderful bass.. Every where there was beautiful and sexy chicks.. all matured.. the way it should be in Kay El.. my 50% hometown.. Hahaha

Inside we were so confused by the music that although we already had 2 jug of whisky and 2 jug of vodka, we still insisted to order another Johnnie Walker Black Label. Call that crazy, I call it partay! Well , with some degree of alcohol abuse.

During the festive in conjunction with Deepavali (as i'm an so called "indian") we rocked all the way till 3am ... dancing our ass off.. drinking the most alcohols we could have imagined.. downing all 4 jugs of whisky and vodka with some black label which we couldn't finish.. oh well .. if we could finish it .. we would have registered to go for the alcohol olympics... hahaha

Below are some pictures that requires attention!!! [Warning: lots of pixx =D]

partay mode : on

son of a bitch driving

group of 4 for Zouk assignment

hard liquors... really good at warming tummies

champ pose with my father Johnny who likes to Walk(er) Black Label

pig mouth and salted pig hand XD

dear why we look so happy geh? LOL

a toast for a more prosperous year ahead

hahaha

*drunk and wasted chicks*

peek-a-boo

officer, this is my new ID card, i'm a citizen of Zouk

single kill

double kill

kiki me also double kill

lol..baby's face like wanna kill ppl

u can dance, u can jive..

boys and girls, FINGERS UP pls

brokeback fountain

hmm, why do i look taller than baby in this pic? XD

syok sendiri?

with the 2 DJs

It was fun. I haven't been to clubbing for almost 6 months. I worked hard. Earned hard. And I'm spending hard too. Am I wasting money? Or is this a financial cycle? Haha I don't know but leisure once in a blue moon sounds fine to me. And this is my first time in Zouk. I shall say WOW, this place is hot!! The girls are hot too. Too bad I couldn't take pictures of other people's hot girlfriends and post it here. LOL

The party was fine, but on the way back something really really disgusting happened. Don't wanna talk about that too much. Just consider it as "poh choi tong joi" or in english, we forgo monetary assets to sheild off unfortunate disaster. Once again, hope that this will be a smooth year for me and my family, especially my sister in her job - gambate.

HAHAHA, and before reaching Sungai Long, our big sister a.k.a clubbing queen has been stripped off her title. She asked me to pull aside. And she ................

the picture says it all XD

Below is the reason why she vomitted. NOT because of alcohol. But.......

iamnothappy

i am sitting in front of my laptop now.. forcing myself to blog because i missed out alot in blogging things i wanted to blog and blogging things i wanted but couldn't blog because i don't have the pictures yet or because i didn't take any pictures of them. -sigh-

went to watch bride wars yesterday. its funny, really. and out of all the fun and humor in it, at the end of the day i learnt something new. there's a moral in the story. nice to have an elusive combo of humor and significant meaning in one movie. congrats.

wow.. i would want to marry the both of u too

its basically about two very best friends, dreaming of their dream wedding which is to have it held on June in the Plaza (i don't know what the Plaza is, but its sure to be a damm nice place). despite their differences in career and family background, they remain best friends who talks and shares everything even money. first, one of them got a propose from their boyfriends blah blah blah and after that the other girl gets her very own proposal. both wanted to have their wedding in the Plaza on June. but when their wedding date was mixed up with a third person, their friendship got hung on the line as they fight each other to changed the wedding date. RECOMMENDED!!!

and there goes my 9 bucks... mother F

My Atrocious Sem-Break

After the long hard exam, I finally get some freedom away from one of the most boring thing to do in the world which is to study. Freedom, can be anything to anyone but in short, even an idiot would know freedom means escape from things you don't want to do and to do things you want to do.

Well that wasn't the case for me. Poor me have been slaving for the whole month of December working double shifts almost everyday. With my poor math, its almost 14 hours (plus minus, depending on season) of work daily for 1 month duration. I couldn't even game for 14 hours each day, what more to say to work. With pressure from crowds, sometimes being scolded or shown face. Wow, that's hard. And mind you that, even since people know that I works in the cinema, I'm getting call frequently. No offence but its okay to help close friends, relatives or buddies to get some nice seatings. But heck to those hi-bye friends or acquaintances. Those whom I have NO CONTACT with, whom I do not have their numbers, whom I have not heard from for a long long time suddenly contact me to seek help. It's really bullshit. It all goes to the left side. !@$%!$%#$!@

Next, to brief about my work place. In the morning is at TGV cinemas while the night shift is at Canopy Beverage and Dine. Not bad of an experience. TGV has been my employer for 3 months before I entered Uni, therefore nothing much there. Some old staffs and many new staffs. At first, I was kinda quiet but it went on well. Got to know many new friends. Also noticed some bad qualities inside of me that needs to be changed, or shall I say repaired. "It" could be malicious. Overall, nothing special just routine work everyday.

Canopy, I would say it is a new experience. As a bartender, I learned a few tricks from my buddy MengMing. Its really fun to experiment around with stuff and try out the taste. Gives a fresh sense of satisfaction. I also had the chance to indulge in the F&B line, I got to draft draught beer, got to taste it, making sauces, pizzas and sausages. To be frank, I once had a dream to become a cook but my body just can't agree with heat or hot temperatures. But it was indeed a nice try though my first one failed. I also learned how to play pool which is very very very FUN!!! YEAH!!! In conjunction with Chinese New Year, I got lots of Angpau in Canopy, made new friends, tiu-ed new people, heard alot of new funny jokes, saw alot of rich people, served alot of customers and broke alot of glasses. And believe me, you don't even want to wash the glasses here. [pictures will be available in my next blog]

Well, because of work I missed my girlfriend's birthday, christmas, new year, chinese new year, hanging out with family & friends, and 2 weeks of classes. Fact that I do get paid doesn't really compensate because I EARNED it. I did not sit there and got paid. I worked real tired and hard for it. And the fact that when i'm tired, it changes my facial expression to something really scary and disgusting and annoying. Then I get real frustrated and I blow my temper on customers/colleague. Really sorry for that. That's the 2 places I spent most of my 2 months time in.

Now, few days after loosing the lifestyle, going back into my study mode. I figured that it is time well spent. At least I am left with some extra cash. And I sincerely wish that my buddy, MengMing will enjoy his homestay at Canopy. Cheers! May the glasses be with you! :)

Happy Birthday to U

One thing everyone wouldn't want to miss is their own birthday.
Everytime it comes, it seem to us that we have grown. Wiser? Maybe.. but for sure we have grown older and it is guaranteed.

This is actually a delayed blog which was supposed to be published before 2008 ends but due to my busy work schedule, it has to be postponed to... now!

Year 2008 has actually been a fine year. No doubt there has been highs and lows. Let us not talk about lows, because you and i don't want any negative energy to surge around. So highs it is.

For a typical bensasoun, every year starts with New Year celebration and ends with Christmas. Well that has been me for almost 19 years. Its not really that boring but i gotta say some changes maybe corky.

So this lucky 2008, well the typical bensasoun have been washed away with the newly coupled bensasoun coming into the scene. This year I have been given the opportunity to proudly and excitingly end year 2008 with 3 major celebrations in December which issssssssssss my sister's birthday, my dear's birthday and Christmas.

Unfortunately, due to my busy work schedule once again, I am unable to celebrate the usual Christmas and the long anticipated birthday of my dear. It should be decribed with a heavy SIGH!!!

Actually this year kinda sucked at its end when I have to work double shifts, day and night, with almost zero leisure and zero time for my own. Not even getting enough time for sleep. But it is a choice made by myself and I have no one else to blame rather than myself, in this case I hope that the monetary reward could compensate for all my losses.

HOWEVER, 1 thing in this world that cannot be compensated is my dear's birthday. We were supposed to be celebrating it before its exact date in KL but once again due to my busy work schedule blah blah blah.....
I kinda felt bad for myself and for my dear of course for not celebrating together her birthday, christmas and new year. There we have, missing 3 big occasions consecutively. Christmas and New Year sounds fine to me cause i getting paid double. But my dear's birthday is a grief sorrow. Of course i'm not the only one suffering from it.

This is a trauma that has been haunting me for several weeks. (kua jeong XD)
Really felt bad for not celebrating it with her face-to-face. Though we had some through-the-phone-countdown-celebration but my gut keep repeating in my head that it is not sufficient and not sincere. And..... I miss her BADLY!!

Sad case that for a typical ben to be given a chance to change into a not-typical ben.. I wasted my chance this year. But hey there's always next time right. I hope that there will be a next time if we can last that long. 1 years time is not an easy passage. Certainly, there will be highs and lows, but the main point is to maintain or to increment rather than to decline.

Therefore I would like to end this blog with a very sincere "I am SORRY!!! Please forgive me dear", and hopefully our love will keep us going long enough until the day that can we finally celebrate your birthday together. But if that's the case, then I guess we have to celebrate mine first before we do yours. Haha cheers! *i lubs u*

Homerun

Few days before exam..
Once again, my lazy arse is getting on my nerves..
So I want to take some time out to blog a little..
Exam preparation is fantastic.. last minute work again.. yeah!!! Pages done - Erm.. 2 pages.. Haha
CNY preparation is fantastic too.. did lots of shopping.. year 2009 will be expecting a new Bensasoun with lots of new clothes with style thanks to my dear.. *lubs*

Year end of 2008 also will be expecting a broke Bensasoun thanks to >> my dear, my sister, myself << (2 b'days in December, this fear has profounded into my soul, eternally)

So hopefully in 2 days time, OB exam wont be too harsh on this little boy.
Otherwise, I will sexually harass myself !!!

After braining off myself, I will have to "cheok chou" back to my hometown and slave for 1 month. Gosh~ this world certainly do not have free lunch or kap na jumping around

Fortunately, my sister and cousin Steven will support me when i'm back AS THEY HAVE PROMISED ME TO DO SO IF NOT THEY WILL SUFFER SEVERE CONSEQUENCES FOR LYING TO THEIR BROTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! KiKi =D
If you don't, well.. I will sexually harass myself again! Haha

The Month of December

Okay, first of all in the month of December I have 3 (three) major celebrations which are quite major (ALAMAK!!!). In ascending orders, they are my sister's birthday, my girlfriend's birthday and Christmas. Because I am still in the "student" category, therefore I do not have any worries for Christmas except no money for clubbing.

But in this year's December, walaoeh, I almost commited suicide because of my 2 (two) taukeh-so (see-tao-poh @ boss' wife). First I would like to talk about things which have happened. Super advanced birthday celebration for my sister, Jennifer. Below is a picture of her, if you see her on any occasion, anytime and anywhere. PLEASE do not hesistate but to turn back and run as fast as possible!!! You will know why..........

(Extra info: My dad once told me, "Son, you CAN forget my birthday. But NOT your sister's. She is born in 1985 and she might run u over") - check chinese lunar calender

Tada - The Devil Cow with an Angel's smile

Straight after work, she came to Bangsar Village 2 to meet up with us. Well, we walked. We walked a little. We walked around the area. We walked into boutiques and we walked pass cafes and bistros and shops and streets and cars. We finally went to Marmalade for a feast. I consider this as her Christmas present.

Before this, me and my girl already set up a suprise Birthday present for her. I would like to spoil my sis a little since she always spoil me. She bought me a blue cardigan from People's. Not wanting to tantalize her again, I obeyed to her wish which is a Cleo from Crocs. Besides from the slipper and the dinner, we also got her a lovely and cute card which has interesting words in it. My girl gave it some "renovation", just to add more flavour =). It was wrapped nicely and remained under the seat for sometime. No words to be spoken. It remained silent.

Coming back to the dinner part, Marmalade didn't look quite inviting outside. But when we jumped in, the decorations were actually fantastic, although the wooden furnitures are quite old with cracks. We sat down, looked at the menu, picked our food, made our orders. Then we started cham whoring. Hehe for people who know me close I'm actually kinda camera shy but this time I laid it down. Gratz to myself :D

I told myself, wow, this menu is hard

My sister brain-washing my girl to ally her =\

Then, came our food and our drinks.

Fettucini Salmon

Taste like drain water+ginger

**** I can't believe this cost me RM10

Dear, I wanna try yours

Dear: Drink back your one lah

Cheh.. drink ma drink.. Ah, here comes Aglio Olio. Kiki

*Lubs*

Alamak!! I also kena brain-wash d... KiKi

Ok lah.. Fren back

Three of a kind

After dinner, we sent my sister back home. From Bangsar Village to her house, it was a short 5 minutes for her but a long 5 minutes for my big plan. Haha. As we reach, she opened the door. We exchanged greets and smiles. As she sets her right leg out of the door onto the tar pavement, I quickly took out the bag of suprise and gave it to her. Kiki suprise. She seemed happy, so we were happy too!

The suprise with the envelope beautifully decorated by my Dear

The cute card.. Just like me... Hehe *Ahems*

Cleo from Crocs; HAPPY BIRTHDAY SIS!!!

Time spent was not more than 4 hours, but it was enough. Full of joys, laughters, teasing-me and silly stuff. Happy birthday sis from me and elle. Quality time, but not quantity! Yeah!